Published January 22, 2013 by tressalee

Come and get it for you gals who would like to heat up that freeeezing bedroom

read this my darlings, it’s fun and helps a girl be a girl!

Tips for Lovers

Tips for Lovers

Live laugh and Love Loudly



It’s Gettin’ Cold Outside!

Published December 1, 2012 by tressalee

sexy bed_lj74rgzQk21qgx6buo1_400Keep it snugly Hott in the bedroom…

I don’t mean put an extra blanket on the bed for Pete’s sake, put some fire in the oven

Your oven… who has time for that crap? You better!

Your better half is worth it, he’s working his little tail off and so are you I know…because I’m right there with ya sista. I am usually pooped out by hmmm? what’s  it 7 now is that am or pm? doesn’t matter still frazzled. Remember the days of staying up til twelve o’clock? Wow! all gone.  So better get the sexy time in before you hit the ZZZzzzzzzZZZZZz’s.

It only takes a few minutes and be mindful about it. Like, oh yeah take a shower before crawling into bed and when you crawl into bed make sure your in the nude. If you really have time (haha funny) put on the cute sexy wear and some sweet sauce… but remember he likes you any way…especially neked!

That’s my tip for us gal who are to pooped to participate…shopping, cooking, working, kids, animals (men included) take a lot out of a woman. Funny, men think they work hard shhh don’t tell ’em, we just make it look easy. We were built this way, sexy strong and sooo cute 😉 STAY WARM.

Happy shopping and SLEEPING 😉

(dont forget the neked)


Sluggish relationship?

Published November 29, 2012 by tressalee

Sometimes it’s not the relationship, ITS YOU!

That means check into your health. This time of year you can be eating lots of crap and drinking too much happy stuff, that can slow down your metabolism. If you are not exercising that means eeew, your putting on weight, feeling cranky and who the hell wants to be around you? NOT EVEN YOU! It can even be worse, you find out YOUR SICK!

Well this has been me, that’s why I’m sharing. The best shared knowledge, comes from experience.

I would wake and go back to bed. Till hunnie one evening said, “You have a fever” I thought yeah I feel bad and have for two weeks…What the heck? Sometimes you just run til your on empty. Come to find out I had a kidney infection, well my back did hurt but I thought I pulled a muscle.

Why am I sharing this with you? When our bodies are sick we get cranky and we cannot seem to find happiness and depression sets in and we cant figure out why? Well, first and always first when you feel cranky, look into your health. Of course period health can cause random acts of violence and homicide these are major signs your out of balance but before someone has to call the police…get a checkup, a urine analysis  blood work, or have your hunnie kiss your neck and see if your HOTT…we know your hott but see if your body temp is up.

So I looked up how to heal the kidney naturally and started on the garlic and cutting back on sugar and coffee and BOOZE all of my favs specially this time of year. Ginseng tea and lots of lemon water, now I feel better and can even stay up in the morning. I really thought I was just depressed. Yesterday I didn’t have a fever, I went out and could even smile and walk more than 15 steps without thinking of my bed. I was wearing such a frown and that causes the dreaded wrinkles, plus you scare little children this way. Get to the doc first and see whats ailing you, illness, hormones, husbands an idiot (oh that’s not a disease) look at the obvious your not depressed your sick…heal and be happy!

Get that thirty minute run in too what a brain lifter! When you feel better of course.

Live Love Laugh Loudly


THE LOVE PROJECT…Tips for couples

Published November 19, 2012 by tressalee

Tips for Lovers

Yeah, Tips for this and that do they work?

Well, the toothpaste thingy for patching holes in your walls does work, I’ve tried it…it’s cheap and no mess!

The book “The Love Project” is  also cheap with minimal mess… and it also works. It’s so funny, I wrote a true account of a strippers life and my editor said “Hold on, this is too raunchy and true your first book should come in like a lamb” so she toned it down and took out the dirty-nasty parts and created what we now have as  our little somewhat stringent “Tip book” from a strippers point of view…Hmmm? is that possible? Yes, and now I am in the middle…I am no longer categorized in the “Fifty Shades of Grey porn category and too hard-sexy for the Bible belt arena, where I am writing this from now…

Where does a Semi-Christian-Liberal thinking retired Stripper take her book from here?…what a mess, I feel like I’m on the Isle of Mis-fit toys. I am having a book signing in Columbus Mississippi, Saturday December 8th. I know you will stomping down the doors. The local Fox Rock radio station will be broadcasting and interviewing us from Fantasyland (an adult venue, SEX-SHOP). Gotta start somewhere, even tho the book is not about Kinky Karma-Sutra positions it is a couples Love Story to help lovers understand each other and have a better quality relationship…Did I turn you off? Well, its up to you to turn on your partner, I jut give hints and practical applications, a guide for lost lovers…

Where do the lost get this book? If your in Northern Mississippi in a few Saturdays from now you can meet me (the author) and my man (the guinea pig) who will be scantily clad, teaching and promoting on the “How too’s” of coupling without homicidal acts…I didn’t say thoughts. I cannot guarantee this won’t happen. Just hope to renew and reignite passion and love for all who seek.

To Order your Love Project Tip Book

With Love Tressa



Published October 15, 2012 by tressalee

Make it FUN tonite!

Hey Guys and Dolls…what does your relationship need? Well, Stripper’s know all of the tricks and tactics of the trade, take some advice and have some fun too!

Put on show, yes Love can be a show, guys love it and you will like it too. Play dress up, it’s fun to pretend like your someone else. Maybe he needs to be someone else for a while, instead of that creep who always comes home wanting some food, that you never make. Order a pizza and get to the bedroom with a bottle of vino. Life is tough, take a break!
With Love from the pole…Tressalee

SEXY GAMES…The Love Project

Published August 31, 2012 by tressalee

SEXY GAMES, always fun!

You need them and your man wants them…everyone loves to play games even tho they say “I don’t play games”!

well, party pooper to you too, what fun are you having then if you don’t play games? …Uh,  that would be none.

In my book “The Love Project” we turn to chapter 7 where the Love and Sex games are not so hidden treasures.

You can make up your own as you go or go to Google and ask where or what sex games are fun?

Take a theme from a movie you and your man like and dress up like his favorite actress or actor whatever games you are playing… (role reversal) ??. I usually suggest something physical, physical as I start singing my rendition of the Olivia Newton John song. hey you can dress up like and eighties workout sex-kitten, this always gets the pumpin’ maybe from laughter, but its a start. Where there are fun and laughter, there is LOVE!

Okay last suggestion: The old TWISTER and Baby oil game…he will flip or slip when he sees this laying in the middle of the room.
Dont be scared to try new stuff, take your calcium so you don’t break anything 😉

and have fun!


pick up the Love Project



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