Give Your Heart Everyday…

Published February 14, 2011 by tressalee

Today is Valentines Day!

Making heart shaped cupcakes for your hunny or getting ready for that sexy evening,
after buying that hot sexy underwear (try shopping at Lovers Lane not Wallmart) unless you are really broke, then you will be pardoned for such behavior.

Guys really can’t tell the difference because the hot underwear comes off so quickly unless you purchased the brass pole for your sultry before sex dance. What a Lucky guy!

It can be like work, getting everything ready for you and your hunny’s Happy Valentine Day night. Let’s call it a Labour of Love. Putting your heart and soul into making this day special is like putting money into stock, it’s an investment in the future of your relationship and the more time and love put in, the better the return.

Touch is important…

A study fro the University of Zurick found, the more a couple touches one another the closer the bond and the more they trust one another. The body releases a hormone called oxytocin when touched in a loving manner. This hormone is released when mothers give birth, studies found that when the baby is placed directly onto the mothers chest (skin on skin) there is a closer bond between mother and child. From the moment we are born we crave touch.

You gotta laugh…

Laughter is the second language of love. When couples laugh together it creates a unique bond of trust and happiness. Get a good belly laugh in, maybe his jokes aren’t that funny but let down your guard a bit and see it from a lighter perspective, he will love it if you laugh with him instead of at him. Laughter also raises immune function so laugh your way to love and better health!

Self-esteem…

To many times relationships wither because of tearing down the others self-esteem, not meaning too of course it slowly happens if you don’t keep a close reign on your words. This is a very delicate area of our humaness, be gentle and remember to build the other person up. When you met, rememeber how you fawned over each other? That was the one of the keys to your successful relationship. After seeing the true person behind the rose colored glasses, it becomes much easier to find fault and pick on the other. That is a complete no-no in a loving relationship. Think of all the things you admire about your lover and boost up his confidence. Like how he handles situation with such integrity or how he can fix that garbage disposal pretty darn good, make sure you tell him. Not how is filthy skid marked underwear are always staring at you! Put that completely out of your mind…

Disagree…but…

Don’t let the anger pot simmer because it will scorch and make a big stink. So take care of the little issues before they become entangled into a great big mess. One day at a time, one problem at a time. This takes discipline and honesty, do not fear, be diplomatic and not too loud (gals) I know how I can get freaked out, it never works when our emotions are running him over like a freight train. Write down your problems and keep notes, he will be so grateful and maybe even listen to you. All the other times, he never heard a word with all that screaming. Once in a while they do need a good bitching to keep them in line and they will tell you it makes their wieners hard (Keep it to a minimum for arousal purposes only).

Dreams are not just for sleeping…

The two of you must create and build something bigger than the both of you, keeping the partnerships momentum flowing. Make goals that you both can work on, put a vision board together of how you want your future, and keep it somewhere you can see it everyday. You will recognize your partners strengths and weaknesses and help build confidence in the other person and the relationship.

You are both unique and wonderful individuals…

You came into the relationship respecting and giving to one another, the reason you are together is to raise up each other and be the best person you can be individually and as a team.These are the elements of a healthy relationship. Keep your eyez on the prize and don’t forget what brought you together. Your differences are important, so don’t get lost in what you think the other person wants you to be. Be true to your partner by being your authentic genuine self.

You both bring that pizzaz to the mix…don’t loose the sizzle, foshizzle!

Happy Valentines Day!

Live Laugh Love Loudly

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